Keep Your Relationship Alive

When you've been with the same person for a while, things are taken to a whole other level.  Things can go from spicy and exhilarating to comfy and uneventful.  Guys are probably no longer having to go out of their way to impress you, but women get sad that things aren't as special anymore.

If you're feeling like things are boring and dull, here are some suggestions of things to do to spice your relationship up again...

 

	A note a day Buy a pad of sticky notes.  Write a couple and keep them on hand and as your better half leaves for the office, slip one in his/her briefcase, shirt pocket or purse.  What to write on the notes?  how about:  I can't wait to see you tonight!  I will be thinking about you all day!  As you read this note, I will be preparing myself for you!  Get the idea?  Come on, I know you can get creative.  The simplest of notes will work wonders and start getting your significant other thinking and daydreaming about you.
	Petals....lots of petals Petals make any woman, (even a man for that matter) go nuts. Rose petals have forever been a symbol of love and passion, and they ooze a scent that tantalizes your senses.  Here are just a few ways you can use petals... *  Put on top of ceiling fans and turn the fan on as your partner walks in. *  Bring some to a restaurant and put them on the table. *  Inside an envelope with a card or letter. *  Floating in a bowl of water, with or without floating candles. *  Placed in the book your sweetheart is reading. *  Surrounding your partner with petals while he or she is sleeping. *  In a crock pot with a little water for a beautiful smell as they walk in. *  Surround the bath tub with petals and run a hot bath.
	Candles When matched up with rose petals you are in for the romantic ride of your life! There is just something about a candle lit room that sets the atmosphere for romance.  Set a beautiful table, two placemats, matching napkins and all, and bring dinner.  Watch the mood lighten, the smile comes, and the night evolves into something special
	Massage Set the mood, low lights, candles and soft music.  Take your time, don't rush it, make sure your partner is relaxed and sooth away any stresses.  Get a simple Body oil (Neutrogena has one that is a light sesame formula, it smells great and warms the body and hands).  See where the evening leads!

 

Date night Organize a date night regularly, not once a year but at least twice a month.  Get out without the kids and treat yourselves to some romantic yummy food and alone time ... remember what it used to be like to date!

Keeping the magic alive will help you regain or develope a lasting relationship with your partner.  A good relationship is dependent on good communication, love, honesty and trust.  Keeping the relationship spicy can also help when you feel as though your relationship has fallen into a rut.